Confidence build up
The biggest
obstacle whereby teenage travelers are reluctant to travel alone is the
Confidence Issue. Confidence does not build up overnight obviously and takes
time to nurture and grow. There is a saying, “ The more challenges you have,
the bigger your world becomes”. Confidence can be built up by learning
travelling skills and techniques such as learning a new language, learn
navigating skills etc. When one can survive his or her own abroad while
travelling, they definitely are confident in having a set of surviving skills
or technique.
Experience, Experience and MORE
EXPERIENCE.
Staying at home
does not give you any new experience at all. Being too long in comfort zones
may actually build up anxiety and panic when one’s get out in the real world.
When we embark on new travels alone, we are “forced” in a way or another to
gain more and more experience. Most importantly, we not only experience the new
environment and new community during solo trips, but we also get to experience
the ultimate feeling of being yourself solidary. Focus on the experience while
travelling alone, you will always find yourself more engaged and attentive to
the place you’re in.
Travelling alone does not mean that you wont have friends. In a lot of cases, travelling alone gives you more opportunities to make new friends. When you’re travelling alone, you simply can’t sit back and wait for a conversation to happen. You will need to find and get involved in the interactions and discussion with local community. Sometimes, it may be uncomfortable to make new friends, but always REMEMBER, be open to new conversations and be prepared to engage in local topics. A friendly smile will start it all.^^
FREEDOM AND FLEXIBILITY
LESS DISTRACTIONS, MORE SIGHTSEEINGS
Travelling abroad with groups is always a game of compromise. Discussions need to be held again and again until sometimes till a point, it may seem planning a group trip is more tiring than the actual travel. By travelling alone, one can have obviously less distractions, and spend more time indulging the amazing activities you yourself plan. When one does not need to answer to questions and criticism, one can always enjoy a trip accordingly to one's interest.
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